I thought so. What does it mean? In Layman's terms it just means to regulate your verbal sparring drama by: Breathing, releasing, and letting it go. Sometimes not talking is better than trying to meet someone else's mind.
If talking equates to an epic failure just stop talking. If a meeting of the minds ain't gonna happen, chalk it up to an immature or unreasonable mind set and stop talking. You can often say much more in silence than you can by flapping your gums. Now, you have to know that some problems can't be solved, some questions don't have answers, and some people will never get it. Ever. And you need to be okay with it. The answer to a problem that can't be solved is just to leave it alone. It deserves nothing further.
Besides, I think it's the best thing you can do when you're approaching the roadblock, the inevitable impasse, or stalemate of your verbal combats. Walk away, stop talking, thrown in the white towel, forget trying to promulgate your reasoning (cause you know you are vying for the chance to gain personal victory over someone to satiate your selfish ego just to say that you facilitated the resolve and salvaged your ____________________!) <insert whatever works for you. WHEW!
Not winning my friends, not winning.
Truth be told: Closed mouths sometimes speak the loudest. Your wisdom lies within your ability to speak volumes with your silence.
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